People say that.
It's my life. "I'm really happy with the way my life is going at the moment." Particularly celebrities. They like to portray this sense of control and satisfaction with how things are shaping up.
Like "my life" is something that is had. A package.
So ... imagine you can go into the Life Store and buy a life. I want the one with the cute dog and the kewl kids and the loving, attentive, sexy partner... oooh and add in a big house and 3 holidays a year, couple of high-end cars, a dash of charidee work. Hey - I already have that! (this manifesting stuff works huh, only took 25 years!)
If any of us 'had' a 'life, then wouldn't we be able to dictate what happened in it? Wouldn't you get up in the morning on the dot of 6.00, eat tofu flakes and yoghurt tea, and listen to vegetarian music. Exercise for an hour, walk to work at a company that contributes to the well-being of the planet, interact meaningfully with your colleagues whilst giving your all in a self-deprecating but intelligent and meaningful way. For lunch you'd all share a bowl of mung beans and sprouting shoots around the water cooler, leased from a company that donates 10% of its profits to a project that supplies wells in drought countries. Then after an intense, but significantly contributive, day, you'll lightly jog home, meditate for an hour, before steaming some organic-delivered-by-a-local-co-0perative vegetables, drink some recycled hemp tea , before dropping off to sleep after sending some positive vibes and non-invasive and non-effort reiki to unfortunate friends.
(It's likely though, that Vivality woul'd lay in bed til 12, get up, scratch, eat a bacon sandwich, surf the internet, go to the theatre with friends, have a gourmet meal cooked by someone else, be driven home after 2 bottles of wine and some chasers, watch some crap tv, surf the internet some more and pass out at about 3.00 a.m. Rinse, wash and repeat. But that's an entirely alternative reality!)
Neither is wrong. Or right.
Point being... You never choose 'a' life.
For two simple reasons.
It ain't your life.
And there ain't you to choose it.
There's just life.
Cue vegetarian music...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OipXkb6fOFc